I liked your story. For some reason i felt at some point that I shouldn't come out as asexual because it's not something that people can see about me as someone who is still romantically attracted to the opposite gender. Didn't want to "took someone else's place" but reading this made me realize that it is important no matter what your sexuality is. You just sometimes feel that it is not okay to struggle with this as there is people in even more complicated situations.. anyway thanks for an interesting read :)